Monday, March 27, 2017

The Unrealistic World of Reality Television


     Disclaimer: I “keep up” with the Kardashians. .. I think Khloe is funny, I wish Scott and Kourtney would work things out, and I think Kris Jenner’s grandchildren are absolutely adorable.  But I don’t necessarily watch the show to follow the story line… I love getting a glimpse of how they live their life- it’s like a modern day Downton Abby.  Many people are quick to write off the Kardashians because of the superficial stigma that surrounds them and critics have condemned the show as “the nadir of bad taste and of self-absorbed celebrity culture.”  But that doesn’t keep people from watching… "Keeping Up With the Kardashians" is in its thirteenth season with approximately 3 million viewers per episode.  Not to mention, Kim Kardashian has 93.9 million Instagram followers and her younger sister Kylie is in a close second at 87.7 million.   So whether people like it or not, the Kardashians have a HUGE platform. 
It's no secret that when it comes to reality television, the more sex, drama, and shock factor, the higher the ratings.  Basically, the more unrealistic a reality television show is, the more successful it is.  Research shows that heavy TV watchers are more likely to perceive the television world as similar to reality.  And consistent exposure to reality television is linked to negative body image and unrealistic expectations. 
When the Kardashian Empire began, their target demographic was females between the ages of 18-40.  However, when Kylie Jenner blew up and became the “most influential sister” the actual demographics of the Kardashian’s fan base changed to females ages 12-34. Kylie’s fan base is majority females ages 12-17.  As a 26 year old female I am able to watch Keeping Up and see through the superficial messages and unrealistic beauty standards the sisters place on themselves.  I just roll my eyes and move on... But what about the millions of young impressionale girls who watch the show, follow Kylie Jenner on social media, and view her as a role model?
When she was 17, Kylie received a lot of attention over the drastic change in the fullness of her lips.  She addressed the rumors that she had had work done in Cosmopolitan magazine by saying her “lips are a product of maturity and the art of makeup.” Other members of the Kardashian clan backed Kylie, saying that she was simply “over lining” her lips. 

Several teens took to twitter to share a natural way to get Kylie’s lips by putting their lips into a small glass container and sucking in as hard as they could.  Que #kyliejennerchallenge.  This led to others trying the natural method and posting their results on social media.  Unfortunately, this “natural” method actually injures your lips and can cause severe pain and bruising as shown in the photos below. 
FINALLY, when she was “tired” of all the buzz surrounding her lips… she admitted to the public that she had indeed received lip injections in order to achieve her sought after pout.  But don’t worry about Kylie, like many other celebrities she capitalized on the hype.  In 2016 she launched KylieCosmetics.com where she creates and sells Kylie Lip Kits along with other makeup products- it’s estimated she has made $8.7 million from sales alone in the past year.
This isn’t a blog to bash the Kardashian/Jenner family or to say that reality television is horrible and you should refrain from watching it.  The purpose is to identify the platform that young reality stars are given at a time when it’s hard for them to comprehend the influence they have over young people. If you think about it, they have so much pressure on them to look good at all times, and are being told by producers behind the scenes to be more aggressive in their confrontations: to up the drama.  The reality they portray is skewed to produce higher ratings, but when adolescent girls are exposed to it constantly it can cause them to create unrealistic expectations for their own reality.

We can talk about the relational aggression portrayed on Dance Moms, the substance abuse linked to Teen Mom, and young daughters of housewives denying plastic surgery rumors all day… but we can’t really blame the girls.  After all they are still trying to figure out their own identity and are impressionable themselves.  What we CAN do is monitor the amount of time our adolescents are spending watching reality television and who they are following on social media.  We can encourage them to think about and set standards for the people they view as role models.  And, we can educate them about the unrealistic elements of reality television and how it can influence how we perceive our own reality.
The sexualization of girlhood in the media is real and we can see that with Kylie and Kendal Jenner. Young girls are suddenly in a knock down drag out race towards womanhood before they even reach puberty.  This day in time people are going to alter their bodies, especially those who have a camera in their face all day every day.  But, I can’t help but wonder what would have happened if Kylie Jenner had been transparent about her insecurities from the beginning and honest about her journey to overcome them.  When celebrities deny obvious cosmetic changes to their body it is just as deceiving as digitally editing photos, and sets an impossible beauty standard for young girls to compare themselves against.  So there you have it.. the unrealistic world of reality television.
A few questions to think about:
  • How do you feel about young reality stars being forced into the public eye when they are still trying to figure out who they are?
  • How do the television shows you watch and the celebrities you follow on social media influence you?
  • What can we do about it?